I am feeling
pretty sad today. We keep getting bad
news from family. This summer was
supposed to be filled with joy and excitement from graduations, marriages, and
births; however, sadness keeps creeping around.
My husband
and I are very close to his family. He
has a very large family, but they are very close knit. His grandfather on his dad’s side was
diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease over a year ago and had progressively gone
down hill. It has gotten to the point
were he must have around the clock care.
My husband’s grandmother has tried her hardest to continue to care for
while continuing to run their small business (keep in mind they are in their 70’s). Well, a couple of weeks ago she fell while
trying to help him get up and broke her leg.
Needless to say she is no longer able to care for him. The family has been working in shifts to care
for both of them and keep the business up and running. Obviously this puts a lot of strain on
everyone including the grandparents.
They have always been very independent, so this is a huge adjustment for
them as well.
Everyone
(including the grandparents) decided it would be best if the grandfather went
to a local home where he can get the care he needs. Unfortunately, his grandmother can not go
with him, so now they will be separated for the first time in over 50 years! This is very heartbreaking to everyone. Today was his first day at the new
place.
I just wish
this was the end of saddening news for this family… Monday we received word
that my husbands other grandmother (on his mom’s side) had a mini stroke and
was admitted into the hospital. She had
a pretty major stroke many years ago that still affects her health today so
even a mini stroke is detrimental to her.
She is scheduled this morning to have a pace maker put in. The doctors feel this is the best option for
her to keep her heart beat regular.
This woman
is one of the strongest people I know.
She has been through so much in her life but has remained steadfast in
her faith and faced adversity head on!
I’m really
not a fan of writing about the sad things in life but felt like I needed to get
it all out. Any prayers would be
appreciated.
Hoping for
happier days ahead!
I LOVE Adam's grandparents! This makes me sad, they're the sweetest people ever. Give them my love
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